4Cross Love Letter #8 Is ‘I love you’ what you mean?
Dear 4Cross Love Birds,
I love you is lovely… but it’s nice when you connect the values of each position to how you appreciate what they bring to the relationship.
So, here is a way you can say I love you with some positional zest—
Here are four original ways to say "I love you" tailored to each position in the 4Cross Framework, reflecting their unique concerns, strengths, and ways of expressing affection:
For North (Strategic, Decisive, and Driven):
"I trust your vision, and I’m committed to building our future together."
"You inspire me to be better every day, and I love how you lead us forward."
"Your wisdom and decisiveness give me the strength to keep going."
"I love how you always have a plan for us, and I’m with you every step of the way."
For East (Energetic, Spontaneous, and Free-Spirited):
"You make life an exciting adventure, and I can’t wait for all the fun we’ll have together."
"I love how you bring light and joy into every moment we share."
"With you, every day feels like a new possibility, and I wouldn’t want it any other way."
"Your creativity and passion make my heart race, and I love being part of your world."
For South (Supportive, Loyal, and Nurturing):
"Your kindness and steady love make me feel safe, and I love how deeply you care."
"You always know how to bring peace to my heart, and I’m grateful for every moment with you."
"Your loyalty and devotion mean the world to me, and I love how we care for each other."
"I feel at home in your presence, and your love makes me feel whole."
For West (Methodical, Thoughtful, and Precise):
"I love how much thought and care you put into everything you do for us."
"You give me a sense of stability and reliability, and I treasure that about you."
"I admire your attention to detail and how you make sure everything is just right for us."
"Your thoughtful actions show me how much you love me, and I appreciate every one of them."
These expressions reflect the natural tendencies of each position, enhancing the emotional connection by speaking to what matters most to them.
Love is everything,
Shelly LaVigne - Love Investigator
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