4Cross Love Letter #4 Are You a Flame or a Dud?

Dear 4Cross Love Birds,

Here are two ways you can ignite the flame of love with excitement and inspiration.

1. Nothing is more thrilling than being recognized for your unique contribution to a relationship. Here are 4 on-point ways you can recognize your mate based on their position. Say it to them with sincerity or write a note and put it somewhere you know they will find it. If you don’t know their position yet, pick out the one you think most suits your mate. Or use them all!

North- "I love how your determination always inspires me to dream bigger and believe in our future together."

East- "Your infectious energy and creativity make every moment with you feel like an exciting adventure, and I can't wait to see what comes next."

South- "Your kindness and unwavering support make me feel cherished and secure, creating a beautiful harmony in our relationship."

West- "Your steadfast reliability makes everything you do so perfect, and it fills our life together with such warmth and stability."

2. Here are some small things you can do to show how much you appreciate your mate based on their position. If you don’t know their position yet, pick one that seems to fit them the best.

North-

Action: Write them a heartfelt note expressing how much you admire their leadership and strategic thinking, and leave it somewhere they'll find it unexpectedly.

Reason: Norths appreciate the acknowledgment of their strengths and efforts. A thoughtful note shows you value and notice their hard work.

East-

Action: Bring them a small, unexpected gift related to one of their hobbies or interests, like a quirky gadget or a book by their favorite author.

Reason: Easts love surprises and things that spark their interest. A small, thoughtful gift shows you pay attention to their passions and enjoy adding excitement to their day.

South-

Action: Offer to do a task they usually handle, like cooking dinner or taking care of a household chore, giving them time to relax.

Reason: Souths often take on supportive roles. Relieving them of a task shows you appreciate their efforts and want to support them in return.

West:

Action: Offer to help them organize a small area of their space, like a drawer or a desk, or help them create a detailed plan for an upcoming project.

Reason: Wests value organization and precision. Helping them create order in their space shows you understand and respect their need for structure and detail.

Showing love in a way that recognizes your mates values shows that you value them. It is the way to their heart. 

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Shelly LaVigne - Love Investigator