4Cross Love Letter #5 What is your name in Love?
Dear 4Cross Love Birds,
Here are two powerful ways you can show your mate how much you value and appreciate them through the expression of love.
1. There's something truly magical about the sound of our name, especially when it's spoken with a touch of endearment. Take a moment to write a short note about the unique qualities of their name and what it means to you. This simple act can make them feel truly special and cherished for their position in the game of love. Because you don’t know their position yet, pick one that is most like them or make your own.
North - i.e. Alex—the person of strength, vision, and unwavering determination. Your name fills me with a sense of purpose and inspiration, reminding me every day of the confidence and clarity you bring into my life. Hearing your name, Alex, is like a powerful call to action, motivating me to strive for greatness alongside you and cherish our shared dreams.
East - i.e. Toby—the man of strength, wisdom, and endless possibilities. Your name resonates with a sense of adventure and courage, filling me with excitement and hope for our future. When I hear your name, Toby, I am reminded of the incredible journey we're on together, and it motivates me to embrace each day with love and gratitude.
South - i.e. Sophie—the woman of grace, warmth, and unwavering support. Your name brings a sense of peace and joy to my heart, reminding me every day of the love and kindness you bring into my life. Hearing your name, Sophie, is like a gentle reminder of the beauty you add to my world, inspiring me to cherish every moment we share.
West - i.e. Jamie—the soul of precision, wisdom, and thoughtful reflection. Your name brings a sense of calm and assurance to my heart, reminding me every day of the meticulous care and reliability you offer. Hearing your name, Jamie, is like a soothing melody, grounding me in the certainty and depth of our love, and inspiring me to appreciate every detail of our journey together.
2. Create A Memory Jar — fill it with sweet memories, reasons you love them, or little notes of appreciation on small pieces of paper. Each day or week, add a new note to the jar. Present the jar to your partner and explain that it's a collection of all the wonderful moments and thoughts you have about them.
This ongoing gesture shows consistent thoughtfulness and appreciation. It creates a tangible collection of love and memories that your partner can look back on any time they need a reminder of how much they mean to you. It's a heartfelt way to celebrate your relationship and build a lasting treasure of your shared experiences.
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Shelly LaVigne - Love Investigator
