4Cross Love Letter #16 4Cross Is Stronger
Dear 4Cross Love Birds,
Knowing your 4Cross position makes you stronger in a more precise and strategic way than the idea of "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger." Here’s how:
Clarity of Strengths: Understanding your 4Cross position helps you tap into your biological strengths, which are consistent and reliable. For instance, Norths excel at creating direction and certainty, Easts bring innovation and energy, Souths offer stability and support, and Wests ensure precision and order. This clarity helps you build confidence rooted in your natural abilities, rather than merely surviving hardship.
Focused Growth: Instead of random adversity shaping you, the 4Cross Love Framework allows for targeted growth. You don’t need to be tested by every life challenge to grow stronger; you focus on mastering your position’s strengths while addressing specific weaknesses in a balanced manner.
Strategic Interaction: Knowing your position allows you to interact more effectively with others. You navigate relationships and conflicts by leveraging your natural strengths and understanding the needs of other positions. This is different from simply enduring hardship, which might teach resilience but not necessarily relational skill or strategic coordination.
Avoiding Missteps: Rather than getting stronger through trial and error, you become stronger by avoiding situations that are incompatible with your position. This proactive strength-building ensures better alignment, less frustration, and greater harmony, which translates into a more fulfilling and productive life.
In essence, the 4Cross Love Framework strengthens you by aligning with your biological design, leading to natural growth and resilience. It’s about thriving with intention, not just surviving adversity.
Until we meet again,
Shelly LaVigne - Love Investigator
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