4Cross Love Letter #15 Who to Choose?
Dear 4Cross Love Birds,
Knowing your position in the 4Cross Love Framework helps you choose a great mate or love the one you're with at an entirely new level by providing clarity about your natural tendencies, strengths, and core survival concerns. Here’s how it works:
Self-Awareness: By understanding your position (North, East, South, or West), you become more aware of your innate characteristics, needs, and preferences in relationships. This self-awareness allows you to recognize what truly aligns with your core desires and concerns, leading to better decision-making in choosing a partner.
Compatibility: The framework shows how different positions interact—some positions complement each other naturally, while others might create friction. Knowing your position helps you identify partners who can offer balance, support, and harmony, maximizing relational success.
Strategic Selection: It allows you to spot and avoid common mismatches. You can focus on potential partners who not only understand but also respect your position, creating a foundation for mutual growth and fulfillment.
In short, knowing your position provides a "biological compass," guiding you toward partners who are aligned with your natural way of relating and interacting, which increases the likelihood of a thriving, enduring relationship.
Until we meet again,
Shelly LaVigne - Love Investigator
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