4Cross Love Letter #11 Question Love
Dear 4Cross Love Birds,
Showing genuine interest in your partner’s thoughts and perspectives makes them feel valued, heard, and appreciated. Here are ten thoughtful questions that not only express your interest but might also reveal something new you didn’t know about them (which will be HUGE clues about their position).
Describe some positive traits about yourself.
Can you talk about some aspects of your behavior that occasionally frustrate you?
Can you talk about how important hard work is to you and others around you?
Can you talk about what rules, order, and doing things correctly mean to you?
Can you talk about some particular behaviors in others that annoy you?
Can you talk about how change makes you feel? Do you like new adventures as the norm, or do you like to occasionally do new things but prefer more stability day to day?
Do you enjoy deep, thoughtful conversations or prefer more direct and to-the-point discussions?
Do you like being in the loop about the local scuttlebutt or family drama, or could you take it or leave it?
Can you talk about the kind of person you have a tendency to be attracted to in a relationship, whether it’s from dating or your partner that you chose in life? Would you say that you seem to attract a certain kind of person?
Do you find yourself wanting to prove yourself to people, or would you say you are more assessing them on their merits, trustworthiness, or abilities?
Until we meet again,
Shelly LaVigne - Love Investigator
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